And The Band Played On





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: A teen? WHAT??, Chas, Family Outings, Good Times, The Usual Suspects

In my last birthday post, I mentioned this little birthday “party” that the Japanese Steakhouse staff throws for those lucky guests who are happily celebrating their new age.

I myself have been receiving this torture ever since I turned 16.
It’s been really, really fun.
Ahem.

It goes down like this: a sweet little Japanese man (always the same one) comes to the table and brings his box of musical treasures.
We’re handed some clanging, jingling, or banging contraption.
And then we are all forced happy to play along.
(I’m really poking fun–this is an adorable tradition and we all do look forward to it. Sort of :))

After we shattered eardrums throughout the restaurant, Chas moved onto his gift and then we headed for home. (I say “gift” because there was only one this year. This boy has EXPENSIVE taste in giftery, wanting an iPod touch. Jenny said it wasn’t that much. Jenny lied.)

My mom had offered to babysit (a sleepover!) with the three older kids so we hustled back to our house after leaving the restaurant…only to realize that if we went to a movie, it’d be too late for Greer to enjoy being at my mom’s. (My mom was going stay at our house until we returned so that Creux could sleep and then she was going to take the brood of big kids over to her place late night.) I couldn’t bear for Greer to be disappointed so we decided on just popping out for coffees and dessert.

We were back home by 9:30ish and in a strange twist, we ended up with an evening alone with the birthday boy! He decided to stay with us so we pulled out a movie we’d been wanting to see with him for ages. (We watched “Troy” which might be one of the greatest movies of all time–a little adult in parts (YIKES!) but we all loved it, despite some show of rumpage :) Chas has studied Homer’s “The Iliad” and “The Odyssey” at length and is well-versed in the occurances of Ancient Greece which is why we thought he’d enjoy the movie. He did, immensely, but Rhyse is LIGHT YEARS away from seeing anything so graphic so I wouldn’t recommend this for anyone younger. Awesome, awesome movie, though.)

It ended up being the perfect ending to a perfect birthday-filled weekend!
From start to finish, from the sleepover to the dinner to the musical table parade to the Trojan War…it was a wonderful way to celebrate Chas.

For now, we pack, we cram, we study, we race.
And we leave…FRIDAY.

Here are the remaining photos from dinner–my apologies for the lack of sound :)
I know you’re tremendously disappointed, right?

PS…I’m GOING to figure out how to add those Flip movies on here if it’s the last thing I do! I’m hoping to share some pregnancy/birth/newborn footage so Tech Support, hear me now: Hurry up, please.

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As One





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: "The Boys", A teen? WHAT??, Creux

Oh, be still my heart!
I saw this happen at last night’s dinner and I couldn’t get my camera focused on them fast enough!
Chas was checking out his new birthday gift and a small crowd of fans gathered.

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It’s just so sweet to me, this inherent brotherly “ownership” that goes on around here.
With his little arms around each of the boys, he seems to be saying, “You’re mine.”

So far, Creux has two “mines”.
(That’s what he’ll say when something belongs to him, “NO! Dos MINES!”)
And he always wants to be with these boys.
He knows he’s one of them and he nearly kills himself (and sometimes me) in his quest to join their gang, to keep up, to hang with “The Boys.”

I hope they are close always.
Brothers are forever.

The Assembly





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: A teen? WHAT??, Chas, Family Outings, Good Times, The Usual Suspects

I really detest photos taken around a table filled with food.
I can’t help it.
It’s just sort of…messy.

But at the Japanese Steakhouse, there’s really no great place to get some snapshots (plus, once I was seated on that bench, there was NO WAY I was hauling myself up to play photographer) and I didn’t want to miss the occasion because I hated the back-drop.

As it stands, I’ve done my best to remove our dinners from your sight :)

And we had a GREAT evening together! Somehow this has become THE birthday place for every member in our family except Charlie, Creux and myself. But my mom, sister, Stew, Dave, Chas, Rhyse and Greer…they will request it every single time! Certainly there could be far, far worse places to gather to celebrate and this restaurant has one thing on its side: it keeps Creux HAPPY! He’s absolutely enthralled by all the cookery going on in front of him (remember, he’s our wee chef) so he sits still and presents no problem during the entire dinner service.

Which is n-i-c-e.

These are the happy moments captured pre-”party”. At this place, they like to haul out instruments and make everyone play something (ARGH, you can imagine my excitement at being handed a massive tambourine and being instructed to “SHAKE!”) while this little old Japanese man crows “Happy Birthday” somewhat charmingly off-key.
It’s fun.
It’s always fun.

And we’re lucky to always have so much to celebrate together.
(No one can ever say that I did not do my part to encourage family gatherings :) I’ve provided MANY opportunities for birthday outings!)

Hope you had a lovely time, Chas!

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The Photos You Normally Don’t See





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: A teen? WHAT??, Family Outings, Good Times, Random, Rhyse

For each and every “perfect” picture captured and released here on this blog there are a BAZILLION of discards.
If I told you how many pictures are snapped in a given outing, your jaws would drop.
But real life isn’t always about the perfect image, is it?

Not over here.

I try my best to crop out junk backgrounds and sometimes I’ll switch up the lighting so as to hide things I don’t want you to see :)

I’m sneaky that like.

But every so often, I come across a picture that’s TRULY depicts a moment of my life, in all of its flawed glory.

Remember when I showed you this:

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But it was really THIS:

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Sometimes I can’t monkey with it.
Sometimes there’s just no getting around a great photo gone bad.
Sort of like this one at tonight’s dinner.

This would be a terrific shot if that chopstick weren’t half up Rhyse’s nose.
And if Greer weren’t absolutely sobbing in the background.

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Ahhhh, life.
It’s great, isn’t it?
(You know, I actually adore both of those “botched” photos because they really and truly are US–untouched, uncropped, unperfected. Just us…the really crazy version!)

Chas & Co.





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: A teen? WHAT??, Chas, Good Times

Whereas Rhyse’s sleepover party nearly killed us (I can still hear those kids screaming songs at the tops of their wee lungs), Chas’s was a far bit different.

Teenage boys are EASY to entertain!
Why?
Because they really want nothing to do with us! :)

We’d told Chas that he needed to limit his party number to two because we only have three gaming controllers and I KNEW that’s what they’d spend the night doing!
And sure enough, they barely came up for air.
We even sent pizzas and drinks downstairs in a never before occurrence! (We eat together, always. Even WITH friends over.)
But we thought that they’d enjoy the freedom…and the peace from Chas’s siblings.

Eventually though, we lured them upstairs with a rousing game of “Apples to Apples.”
Initially, this was our consolation offering to Rhyse–he was bored and alone so Charlie and I thought we’d play a game with him.
But he extended the offer to the bigger boys and much to our amazement, they all wanted to play!
(Who knew???)

So we spent a fun hour getting to know these kids a bit better (not so easy to do with this age group, by the way), and we had a terrific time goofing around at the kitchen table.

Post-game, Rhyse headed to bed and the boys returned to their gaming lair in the basement.
They were not seen or heard from again until nearly NOON today!

Birthday sleepover: check
Birthday dinner with family: check (photos coming)

Now all that’s left is turning 13!
Five days to go…

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Sentimental





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: A teen? WHAT??, Chas

Nearly 13 years ago, he lit up my life in a way I could never have imagined possible.
He continues to do so every single day.

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Happy Birthday, Chasie.

May the sun always shine upon you.
May the stars always wink at night.
May your world always be as illuminated as you’ve made mine.

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I love you more than words could ever express.
Thanks for being such a wonderful son.

Always and forever,
Mama

Shortcuttin’ It With No Apologies





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: Chas, Creux, Good Times, Greer, Greer's Preschool Days, I Never Said I Was Martha, The Littles, What In The World Do You Feed Those People?

Back when we were preparing for the Harmons to visit, we stopped at Costco to load up for the week of mass food consumption and I must’ve been in the throes of one of my chocolate cravings because I ended up with a box of FOUR PACKETS of brownie mix in my cart.
Truly, that’s what we would’ve need to bake for our party of ten.

But for whatever reason, we just never got around to making them.

This ended up being a SWEET thing for me when I realized that Greer would be celebrating a “half birthday” at school and that I was to bring in a super sharey snack for the class. I headed straight for that box of four packeted brownies and I started ripping them open.

I normally don’t bake from boxes.
If we’re making something, we typically start from scratch, especially if I’m not pregnant and not completely half out of my mind.
But THIS brownie pack drew me in because it touted “all natural” ingredients (and upon close inspection, they fit my foody requirements–nothing in there that shouldn’t be!) and all I needed to add was…yogurt.

Seriously???

I thought they were worth a try so we made two huge batches: one for preschool and one for our family. I used all four packets in one fell swoop!

I made a significant change to the recipe, swapping organic applesauce for the yogurt, making these brownies not only fat-free but dairy-free. And the best part? Because there’s no raw egg tucked inside, my kids can lick the batter to their hearts content!
(And you will see that they did just that!)

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These were such a hit with my bunch that I’ve made another big batch for tonight’s celebration–Chas’s sleepover party with his two buddies.

I do love baking; I even sometimes really love messy-style baking.
But there are days like today, that it’s all I can do to open the packets and pour some applesauce into the bowl. (Oh! And two splashes of vanilla!)

What in the world would I do without Costco?

Brownie Making Round One:

I let the Littles lead this round. I was going to destoy the kitchen anyway–we also had playdoh to make. So I handed out two bowls, two spoons, and let them get their bake on.

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And then they got their lick on!

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And this is Greer tonight, after being handed the wooden spoon from Brownie Making Round Two.
(It’s really not fair that I post this of her because I know for a fact that I had a matching face of..uh, decadent indulgence :) However, she’s cuter. And I really don’t need a picture of pregnant, chocolate-rimmed me being circulated all over blog space. You know those “Priceless” photos, showing normal people in horribly, wickedly embarrassing moments? I fear them. FEAR THEM. I do not need to be the local “Priceless Moment” girl.)

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(And yes, the batter is really THAT good.)

Now, as for how to keep Creux from face-planting into the pan of soft, gooey chocolate?

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I put him on dish duty!
Works like a charm every time!
The only he loves more than chocolate is hosing the kitchen down with the sprayer…

17 Weeks, 1 Day





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: Oh BABY!, Uncategorized

Well, I didn’t think I’d have time to post this until later this afternoon but I’m cooling my heels with a dead car battery.
Too many little critters in and out of the car these days…I never know when someone’s gone back to find a book or a dolly and left a light on, door open, etc.
Sigh.

I SO love scrambling to get out the door, my stress levels off the chart, only to find that I’m actually not going anywhere.
Until someone comes to rescue me :)

I had Chas take my 17th week photo on the way out the door so here we are!
This is a huge month of growth for Baby and it’s really taken a toll on me this week.
I feel good still…just abnormally tired.
Hopefully I can rally and get all of the vacation prep done this weekend and then can spend a nice, long break lounging around the pool and exploring Tennessee with my family.

17 weeks…man, it’s FLYING…

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In Need Of A Break





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: "The Boys", A teen? WHAT??, Creux, Greer's Preschool Days, Homeschooling, Musings, Rhyse, The Long Days Of Winter

We are in desperate, desperate need of this upcoming vacation.

There has been all manner of schoolish hell breaking loose in this house since January 5th.
See, though we actually started school three weeks before the publics could way back in August, we have taken quite a bit of time off.
We missed a whole week while we were at Deep Creek.
We missed many, many, MANY days when I was down with my morning sickness. Chas schooled himself on what he was able to do alone but Rhyse isn’t to that point yet.
And truth be told, we don’t typically do bookwork five days a week.
During the heights of busy, busy fall and spring, sometimes we’re only book-working three days out of five.

That’s not to say we’re not busy LEARNING.
We’re just out at co-op, art class, field trips, nature programs, etc.
When the weather is nice, my kids are outside during the day. We do manage to get most of our work done over the course of a week but it’s mainly because they are quick learners and we can move fast.
It’s not because we sit inside for x amount of hours a day.
We have no firm time requirements.
If the sun is shining and they want to play…they play.

Which is why we must absolutely buckle down during the months of January, February, and March.
In order for me to really be flexible according to the sun and its ability to light up our world and draw my babies out of the house, we need to be ahead of the game by the time April swings around.

To say that this period of hard work is grueling is to say that it’s sometimes cold and ugly in Ohio :)

Since January 5th, my boys have been in two-a-days here at home.
We complete assigned work for Day One in the morning and then we tackle Day Two in the evening.
It’s A LOT of work.

I like to do things my own way and I really like to allow my kids the freedom of choosing their subjects during the day so we don’t follow K12’s typical day outline.
In August I said to Chas, “Pick a subject and complete the whole first unit. And then pick another. It’s your choice completely but at some point, everything has to get done.”
A unit of schoolwork typically consists of enough assignments to last two or so weeks.

By doing his work this way, Chas has now completed 7th grade science, art, vocabulary, and grammar.
And it’s only the end of JANUARY!
We literally attack subjects, working on just a few at a time in order to reach completion. Once we do that, we turn our attentions to the next nearest-to-the-end subject.
He’s rapidly approaching a finish with his literature course–we’re at 70% currently and must reach at least 90% by the end of May.
My goal is to reach at least that by the end of next month.

Heading into spring, Chas will be left with just three subjects: math, comp, and history (his next closest at 53%).
It’s my hope that we will be completely done with our curriculum work (aside from math which takes FOREVER) by the April OAT testing dates and we’ll start our summer break by May 1.

Allowing Chas to work on what he wants when he wants has made all the difference in our success and progress. He doesn’t complain if I say, “Pick something and work hard–I don’t care what you choose. Just move on it. Spring is coming.”
But LAST year, when I tried to follow the day K12 laid out for me, it was a nightmare.
For this reason, next year will be Chas’s last with K12.

Right now, it seems that he will be home for high school, at least for the beginning, and I do not like K12’s set up AT ALL.
It’s rigid, completely inflexible, and is far, far, far too much like running a high school out of my home.
I’m not interested in being told how to educate my son, when I can take vacation days, and how I must regulate his time. (The younger grades are not like this at all.)
Nothing’s for certain at this point, I don’t quite know what all of my options are but I have time.
I do know that we will be using K12 next year for 8th grade and I’m happy with that.

As for Rhyse, he’s not quite as golden as Chas completion-wise but he relies much heavier on me than his brother does. Where Chas can really work on most subjects independently, Rhyse still needs me at his side. He has completed his 2nd grade music, art, and history courses so far–leaving him with math, literature and science for the next three months. Math and science will cause no grief but the literature is MUCH more challenging this year and we’re nearly boggled down by assignments.

Though I don’t make my boys do “busy work”, I can’t skip much in the literature course because Rhyse truly needs the work. So while we would crank out four history lessons a day (essentially nearly a week’s worth of work), we can’t do that with literature. The best I can do with him is two in one day: one in the morning and one in the evening.

The great thing about Rhyse though is that he sees his other courses as “fun.” I specifically left science for dead last because I need something easy to balance that literature heading into burn-out season. That’s also why two of his creative classes, music and art, are already completed. We work hard on the serious stuff and then turn to the easy so he doesn’t complain about continuing on. If I worked lit right after math, he’d groan about being tired, hungry, having to pee, something in his eye, etc. His work has been strategically planned, mostly for peace and harmony purposes :) One of the best things about homeschooling is really being able to tailor the course work to each individual personality.
It just works better.

Next year, I will be schooling THREE while balancing a newborn and my dear, beloved monster.
He’ll miss the preschool cut-off date which really stinks because I could use a few quiet mornings around here while he’s off playing with friends.
Greer will be starting Kindergarten with me though I’m not planning to using K12 for her as I don’t like their curriculum for the younger grades. I didn’t like K and I didn’t like 1st (I used them both with Rhyse) but am so far happy with 2nd. I will most likely make up my own curriculum for her and of course, will rely heavily on my homeschooling network for the rest. She’ll join the Kindy classes at co-op, will pick up piano and art, too. I may even keep her in preschool for another year just for fun (she loves preschool) and work on the K material at home in the afternoons.

For his part, Creux can’t get into preschool like I mentioned but I’m sort of considering a different type of school for him anyway and maybe they’re a bit more flexible on the age requirements. I’m thinking that Montessori would be a good fit for my monster. I’ve been really impressed with the Montessori class that runs at our co-op and just see him settling in there (with less group “rules” and more individual flexibility) better than at a traditional school.
Mind you, however, that the preschool is about two minutes from my house.
And the Montessori is about twenty.
So…we’ll see.
I hate to make it sound like the drive time is more important than placing him where he maybe would benefit most but the reality is that I will have FIVE children.
And I need to make sure that driving that much does not take away more than it adds to the overall success of our days together.
Things like that matter a lot to me.

Anyway, we’re sticking this hard-core schooling thing out for one more week and then we are closing the books for a nice, long break.
When we return, we will automatically lose a home day with our Thursday return to co-op but we’ll keep plugging away until the weather breaks.
My boys know the drill and they’re on-board.
They’re tired and sometimes cranky but I’m so proud of how hard they’ve worked and I’m bound and determined to make sure that all of these long, long school days have a great pay-off for them with a long, long, fun-filled early start on summer.

We’re starting our weekend early tomorrow with a fun morning at Kingdom of Bounce, followed by a birthday sleepover for Chas with two of his buddies, and then a birthday dinner at the Japanese Steakhouse (his choice) Saturday evening with my family. Next week won’t be as cut-throat in the school department as we’ll (I’ll) be preparing for our Friday departure for Atlanta (where we’ll spend the weekend before heading on to Pigeon Forge) plus there will be a day of snow tubing and a midwife appointment tossed in as well, so the temporary end is near!

And we’re going to enjoy every single math-free, spelling-free moment!

Calamity Creux Doodles





Posted by: Angi  :  Category: Creux, Seen and Heard

Our boys have been taking piano lessons since last summer and they both really enjoy this activity.
Partly, I think, because they do really like learning to read and play music and partly because our Monday lessons occur at Jenny’s house.

I don’t need to elaborate on that, do I??

Since our boys took such an interest in their piano lessons, we were rather forced to buy a…piano.
Duh.
(Though, actually, it’s a keyboard type of piano.)

What made this a bit of a bummer was that we needed a keyboard with weighted piano keys.
The keys needed to be authentically piano-ish which took this little purchase from “Oh, we’ll just pick that up at Target this weekend for $200″ to…not just doing that.
It seems I was a little naive in the purchasing of weighted keyed pianos department.

I guess what I’m trying to say is, we have a serious piece of musical hardware sitting in our schooling room.
And to their credit, the boys sit down and practice daily.

The only problem with this pricey little toy is that in order to keep it in a highly enticing and accessible space to help encourage the boys to practice, it’s also in a highly enticing and accessible space for the family rascal.

WHO one day decided that he wanted to add his own little decorative touch to the piano…with Mama’s Sharpie pen, which is actually sitting where I had thought it to be “out of reach”.
Wrong, wrong, wrong.

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(And here’s how that little doodle played out:

Charlie says to me, “Did you see what your son did?”
I reply, “Which one?”
Though there are three boys in the house, there are usually just two good choice answers for that question.
He says, “Go look at the keyboard.”

Pause.
Silence.

Shriek:

“CREUX CALLOWAY!!!!”

Little feet scramble, “thud, thud, thud” racing off into the distance, carrying that Sharpie-scribbling monster to safety.

I hope that child appreciates EVERY candle on his birthday cakes for the next 85 years because there are days that I wonder if he’ll see three.)